Free live masterclass · Wednesday, October 14 · 7:30pm NZ

The Invisible Chain

Why you're still bound to the person who hurt you (even now) — and how to break it for good.

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Margarita Politis

You left — or you're trying to. You know what it was.

So why does your body still ache for the person who hurt you… even now?

That's not weakness, and it's not love. It's a trauma bond — an invisible chain your nervous system forged to survive — and it doesn't break just because you understand it. It can even outlast the relationship itself.

New Zealand’s Leading Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
— who’s lived it.

It wasn’t you. It was them.

If you keep replaying conversations, doubting your memory, and wondering how you got here — your nervous system already knows the answer. Healing begins with seeing it clearly.

Trusted by thousands of women beginning their healing journey.

Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist  ·  RTT Practitioner  ·  Hypnotherapist  ·  Trauma-Informed Somatic Coach  ·  Brainspotting Practitioner  ·  Certified Autogenic Therapist  ·  Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist  ·  RTT Practitioner  ·  Hypnotherapist  ·  Trauma-Informed Somatic Coach  ·  Brainspotting Practitioner  ·  Certified Autogenic Therapist  ·  

On the night, live with Margarita

How the chain forms

The cycle of cruelty and kindness that hooks your brain like a slot machine — and why it was never your fault.

Why knowing better isn't enough

Understanding lives in the mind. The chain lives in the body. Willpower was never going to be the way out.

What actually cuts it

Body first, thoughts second — including a few minutes of live practice, so you leave with something your nervous system can feel.

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The Invisible Chain

Why you're still bound to the person who hurt you (even now) — and how to break it for good.

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