New Zealand’s leading
narcissistic abuse specialist—
who’s lived it.

 

If you’re white-knuckling through panic, lies, love-bomb → discard cycles, and the sickening doubt that follows, I get it. I’ve been there. I know the deceit and the despair—and the way out. My 1:1 work calms your body fast and restores clear thinking, so you stop reacting, protect your family, and feel safe again.

 

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What this is

A premium 1:1 recovery program that helps you stabilise your nervous system, end survival-driven patterns, and rebuild inner authority.
Not surface tips—practical scripts + somatic work + structured support for lasting change.

Who this is for

  • Survivors of narcissistic abuse / emotionally unsafe relationships or workplaces

  • High-functioning professionals who look “fine” outside but feel fractured inside

  • People with CPTSD symptoms (hypervigilance, panic spikes, shutdown) who are functioning but not thriving

  • If you’re carrying chaos—emotional and financial—and need a clear path back to calm.The path we’ll take

  1. Stabilise (Weeks 1–4)
    Grey Rock 2.0 + BIFF scripts, 30-second Somatic SOS, sleep and trigger resets.

  2. Repattern (Weeks 5–8)
    Dismantle fight/flight/fawn/freeze loops; channel-clean communication; escalation ladder.

  3. Rebuild (Weeks 9–12)
    Inner authority, values-led boundaries, and a 30-day maintenance plan.

What you’ll experience

You’ll move from survival-driven reactivity to grounded authority—with skills you can use the same day.

Common results:

  • Reply with presence instead of pressure (two-line scripts that end bait)

  • Emotional safety and self-trust you can feel in your body

  • Sustained performance without collapse or people-pleasing

  • Relationships built from regulation, not reactivity

What’s included

  • Weekly 1:1 sessions (Zoom)

  • Custom scripts (Grey Rock 2.0 + BIFF) for your exact scenarios

  • Somatic SOS drills (audio + PDF) you can use in 30 seconds

  • Between-session check-ins (Mon–Fri) for support and accountability

  • Boundary Playbook + escalation ladder + paper-trail hygiene

  • Methods: IFS-informed parts work, Positive Psychology practices, RTT-informed protocols, and Brainspotting-informed techniques—applied in a coaching, education-first way.

9 WeekTrauma Recovery Intensive

 

 

 

     

What’s Included:

  • Nine weeks of private, high-touch 1:1 sessions (90–120 minutes each)

  • RTT®, somatic practices, and trauma-informed coaching

  • Personalized nervous system reset tools

  • Integration support: check-ins, recordings, and practices

This is a powerful container for high-functioning professionals who are ready to step beyond survival.

Because transformation of this magnitude requires container integrity, spaces are limited and held intentionally. This is a premium offering with high-touch care and support.

 

If you’re ready to move from surviving to sovereign leadership, let’s explore this together.

 Limited 1:1 spots available

 

Free 15-min triage
Healing from narcissistic abuse

Embodied Leadership Tier- (Executive Upgrade)

Healing is the first step. This advanced tier is for executives and high-performers who are ready to embody resilience, authority, and influence at the next level — so your presence communicates calm before you speak a word.

Includes everything in the 9-Week Intensive, plus:

  • Three additional weeks of advanced integration practices

  • Autogenic training for deep emotional regulation

  • Executive presence coaching (communication, energy, and influence)

  • Sound healing and advanced nervous system resets

  • Ongoing accountability and tailored support

Transformation Promise:
With this tier, you don’t just heal—you embody the calm, trusted authority that inspires others.

 


“Apply now — limited to maintain container integrity.”

 

 

 

 

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Why Margarita Uses Root Cause Cellular Healing with RTT and Brainspotting

We’re not here for surface-level fixes. As certified transformational experts, we guide you into profound, lasting change with Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®) — a cutting-edge method that rewires your mind and body at the root.
RTT® fuses the most powerful tools from neuroscience, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, NLP, and CBT into one accelerated process. The result? Fast, permanent breakthroughs that dissolve limiting beliefs, heal stored trauma, and reset your nervous system for resilience.
This isn’t about “coping.” It’s about stepping into the clarity, strength, and freedom you were always meant to live with.
 Working with Margarita was one of the most strategic and powerful decisions I’ve made. She helped me let go of old triggers, find positive learnings, and step into a stronger, more authentic version of myself. My mental awareness, agility, and strength have grown enormously — I highly recommend this journey."

 
 After 16 years of conventional therapy left me stuck and numb, working with Margarita was life-changing. She helped me heal deep trauma and transform from feeling broken and unlovable into someone confident, whole, and inspired. In just a few months, I felt truly free — this work is a gift you deserve."

 
 I came to Margarita carrying years of trauma and self-doubt. Her approach gave me tools to regulate my emotions, rebuild confidence, and feel in control of my life again. I no longer see myself as a victim of the past — I see myself as powerful and free."

 

Margarita creates a safe, supportive space that allows for real breakthroughs. I felt seen, understood, and guided every step of the way. The transformation has been profound — I now live with a sense of peace and possibility I never thought was possible."

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